Affirmative consent is a way of thinking about and understanding consent that moves away from “no means no” and towards an understanding that everyone is responsible for seeking sexual consent. Consent only be given if clear words or actions are used to show that everyone understands and agrees to what is happening. It means sexual partners need to check in with each other. Consent can never be assumed. Consent means ongoing and mutual communication and decision-making.
In Victoria there are new affirmative consent laws that came into effect on 30 July 2023. You can learn more about Victorian Affirmative Consent Laws here.
Looking for inspiration? Check out the ConSensual Zine which was made by young people for young people. It’s full of practical information plus some artistic and insightful pieces from creative contributors exploring what consent means to them.

